|I have 600 and some-odd friends.|
Here we go with the snooping and the computer checking and the steaming-open-of-letters and the listening in on phone calls and so on and so forth. If you are married or otherwise committed, you should trust the person you are with. If you can't trust them, why are you there?
Peggy does not need to give me her password. We use the same password all over the place ("O U C I 8 3 BLTs", a tribute to my favorite sandwich) so there is nothing to hide. Peggy has been keeping a journal since the early days of our marriage, and
But that would be overlaying your values and issues over an entire group of people, wouldn't it?