There was always a maid in the old movies. She was often married to the butler. She cooked and cleaned. He laid out clothes and tended to matters around the house. And he greeted guests at the door, wearing a stiff collar and matching upper lip.
There's a new definition of "maid," now that we don't live like a lot of Rockefellers. MAID is the acronym for Medical Assistance In Dying.
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CBS showed the story of Barbara Goodfriend this week. Ms Goodfriend was an 83-year-old widow from New Jersey. Last April, her doctor told her she had ALS, (Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis), that horrible disease that devastates the nervous system and leaves one with no muscle control.
She was told that she hadn't long to live, so she opted for ending her life, rather than living it in the grip of what's called Lou Gehrig's Disease.
She went with MAID, in which a medical doctor provides a lethal medication for people of sound mind with less than six months to live. The person must take the dose themselves, which is where this differs from euthanasia, in which a doctor administers the lethal medication. Euthanasia is illegal in the U.S.
Ms Goodfriend said she wouldn't otherwise wish to die, but, "What am I going to give this up for? To be in a wheelchair? To have a feeding tube? I wish I had more time to live, but I don't want more time as a patient."
MAID is legal in ten states and Washington D.C. Last year, the Maryland legislature did not pass a Death With Dignity law.
I wonder how you feel about this. For my part, I would never consider suicide, because there are still so many people I haven't had time to irritate yet. But living with ALS? I don't think I would.